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The Woman

The song of the "soul"..


Spoken with a very heartiest friend of mine.
She said:" Every relationship would be fine without any financial issues".


She is married for a second time, with child.
It was very unfortunate of her that her first marriage didn't turn out well.
A very tough lady I would say.
Despite the fact that the first marriage didn't end up well, or shall I say that didn't work out, she took up the courage to accept and believe in marriage once again.


It's not easy for a woman to be able to raise a children on her own with the economy nowadays.
It's definitely difficult.
What's even worse?
The husband is in debt.
The kind of condition whereby they have literally "blocked" the view in front of you.


The first question that I asked her was whether she knew about that when she married him.
The usual kind of lies that men tell.
She didn't knew about that.
Being practical and rational, she wouldn't have married him if she knew that.
Come on, the world is fair and realistic.


It's the woman's whole life that she is giving if she marries.
Why on earth does guys have to lie about anything?


We are nothing but humans.
Sole human.
I felt touched immediately when she said that she is married to him, no choice but to grow the family together. To go through the hard times hand and hand to overcome everything.


Hopefully that the guy will appreciate and eventually lead a happy living in the future.
What if..
What if the guy decided to give up someday?

Oh gosh I couldn't imagine that from happening.
Shouldn't have married at the beginning.



Woman... woman..
I know I sound very negative about marriage.
It's the kind of insecure you get about living together with another person.
Insecure can exists in many different forms.
The most common ones? Financial issues.
C'est La Vie.


There was one fact that I agreed with my friend.
With your egoism, you are not going anywhere.
It's your family.
What is family for if you are not able to share your deepest of thoughts/conditions with them?


True enough.
I don't understand what is there to hide from your OWN family members.
It's your mum and dad.
You think that you are very ashamed when your family knows that you are in some kind of problems?


Some people "self-claimed" to be family oriented but they can't even let them know the real situation of themselves.
I can't brain about that.
Hello? Are you sane? Uuugghhh.




Honesty saves a lot of shits.
But it kills a lot of shits as well.




Fact of life? I will never lie to my mum.
I'm good means good.
Bad means never good.
You are not going anywhere good if you can't even be honest to them.
Shameful is the only word that I can think of.
Ma I wanna live together with you for the rest of my life.
The one that will never keep anything from me.
I only want someone that never hide anything from me. That's the definition of family.
Try Google if you don't get the true meaning of it.



Get a life seriously.





:: regards ::




RAe




PS: Can LOVE and ONLY LOVE itself conquers everything?