The Motherhood

Everything has been going on well between me and my family and with Mr. E.
But there is now one particular stuff that I'm afraid of the most.

All these wouldn't have happened if we only have to deal amongst us, the couple.
But sadly, marriage is never about two persons loving much about one another and getting married.
It is basically about 2 persons who want to get married with the whole family that they are having. FML.


I have always wanted to give my mum the very best that I have. Just so you know, she's the only person that loves me so much when everybody else hates me.
Well. It might not be only her.
I still have the rest of the families.
The dad.
The Bro.
The other mums.
I have always tried to work things out so that there could be a fair balance between the mum and Mr. E. But this time around, whereby I understand the positive intentions that Mr. E is having. But I dont really understand why is the mum making such a big fuss over these kind of little things.


Perhaps, the tradition matters.
The CNY matters.
Perhaps.
But, I don't really understand.
Is there a need to be that firm over such little things?


Damn. Seriously, there is a need to have a common ground between me and Mr. E. Else, we would be suffering from a lot more of pressures. Stress. Tension. And everything bad. So bad I could be suffocated to death.


I wish. I wish to be far away from all these nonsense that could have been avoided. There must be a balance between all these.


Communication is what that matters the most.
But sometimes our egoism is so strong that we take things for granted thinking that our another half SHOULD/MUST/WILL do it according to our wish.
The most important rule to having a trouble free relationship, from having all the frictions, communication and never make assumptions.


We are in a relationship. But we are not each other. We should always be educated of what is going on in our head to clear off the obstacles ahead us.
It is never ashamed to let each others know about your feeling about some particular things.
That's where the value of true relationship comes from.
The respect. The individual. The love...



No matter what that happens, your own mum is irreplaceable.
Be it your mum.
My mum.
His mum.
Her mum.
It's our own mums.




I truly wish that all these unhappy choices/moments would leave together with the lunar 2013.
Embracing a brighter better and happier lunar 2014 that is coming ahead of us.



Best regards,



Raaaeeeyy